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Domina DeManda is available to schedule for groups, organizations and at alternative lifestyle events as an Educator, Presenter and Performance Artiste with the following available classes, workshops and presentations:

MANipulation: Tormenting the Maleness of Man

The male anatomy, the jewels, the triad... ahhh! What a work of delectable human art! But what to do with it all??? This performance workshop focuses on manipulating the male anatomy, and parts thereof, to tease, taunt and torment with rope bondage, nipple torture, electricity, wax and full out genitorture, including genital and appendage manipulation, as well as partial suspension. Discover new ways that can make a man gasp, sigh, groan and growl or go primal.

Time Needed: 60 - 90 minutes
Special Needs: Table and male demo bottom with tolerance for pain
Handout to Photocopy: YES
Presented at: FF13, LAC 06, BASH 06/07, Dominion

 

WoMANipulation: Tormenting the Femaleness of Woman

The female anatomy, from breasts, to the petals, to the pearl and the jewel within the core… ahhh! What a work of delectable human art! But what to do with it all??? This performance workshop focuses on manipulating the female anatomy, and parts thereof, to tease, taunt and torment with rope bondage, nipple torture, electricity, wax and full out genitorture, including genital and appendage manipulation, as well as partial suspension. Discover new ways that can make a man gasp, sigh, groan and growl or go primal. 

Time Needed: 60 - 90 minutes
Special Needs: Table and male demo bottom with tolerance for pain
Handout to Photocopy: YES
Presented at: FF12, LAC 06, BASH 06/07, Dominion

 

WoMAN and MAN-ipulation: Tormenting the Sexes

The female or male anatomy… ahhh! What a work of delectable human art! But what to do with it all??? This performance workshop focuses on manipulating the human anatomy, and parts thereof, to tease, taunt and torment with rope bondage, nipple torture, electricity, wax and full out genitorture/CBT, including genital and appendage manipulation, as well as partial suspension. Discover new ways that can make your subject gasp, sigh, groan and growl or go primal. 

Time Needed: 90-120 minutes
Special Needs: Table and male demo bottom with tolerance for pain
Handout to Photocopy: YES
Presented at: FF13, LAC 06, BASH 06/07, Dominion

 

The Three T’s: The Impromptu Tease, Tantalize & Torment

Don’t have your toy bag with you? Want to be spontaneously wicked and sadistic? Do you like pulling off surprises when someone least expects it? Here’s some very creative suggestions for impromptu teasing, tantalizing and tormenting your partner to a blissful, squirmy, on-the-edge, bundle of nerves and anticipation, with their level of senses heightened and their sensual arousal on overdrive.

Time Needed: 60 minutes
Special Needs: Chair and demo bottom
Handout to Photocopy: YES
Presented at: LAC 06/07/08, FF12

 

Vibrational Energy Enhancement Play

Discover how to tap into your partner’s kinky sensual energy with the use Colour, Aroma, Sound, Texture, Flavors and your own energy to enhance the senses of sight, smell, sound, touch, taste and the sixth sense of intuition with your partner that can result in some magickally memorable moments together.

Time Needed: 60-90 minutes
Special Needs: Massage/Bondage Table, chair and demo bottom
Handout to Photocopy: Yes
Presented at: LAC 06/07

 

Successful Scening Beyond the Challenge of Physical Limitations

During this presentation, we will walk through identifying and exploring a variety of suggestions and options on how to work with your partner to deal with and overcome the challenges of physical limitations that can result in magickal scenes that are more fulfilling and without causing discomfort or anguish (unless it’s pain in a good way!).

Time Needed: 60-90 minutes
Special Needs: None—audience participation
Handout to Photocopy: YES
Presented at: LAC 07/08

 

Living PDL: Hot Times with the Head Mistress

Naughty boys and girls should be punished and disciplined in order to learn their lessons well! Learn how to create a roleplay scenario where PDL SM (punishment, discipline and lessons) is imparted by a Teacher or Disciplinarian to either a willing or not-so-willing student. Of course, there will be a focus on safety and techniques, as well as a bit of mind fucks along the way that incorporate some good old-fashioned Victorian and Corporal Punishment styles utilizing belts, hairbrushes, rulers and rods that create Hot Times with the Headmistress!

Time Needed: 60-90 minutes
Special Needs: Chair and demo bottom
Handout to Photocopy: YES
Presented at: FF12, LAC 07, BASH 07

 

Vintage OTK: Hands, Hairbrushes and a Helluva-Lot of Pain

Learn the age-old techniques of good old fashioned over-the-knee punishments with bare hands, paddles, rulers and brushes. Be sure to bring a bottom/submissive with you for hands-on application practice!

Time Needed: 60 minutes
Special Needs: Chair and demo bottom
Handout to Photocopy: YES
Presented at: LAC 06/07, FF12

 

The OM of SM: Finding the Center of Self as a Sadist or Masochist

Finding the Center of Self means that you don’t need a toy bag to play when you are in the OM ZONE! Learn how to tap into your creative thought processes and put them in to action, as well as open yourself to fully experience the OM ZONE.

Time Needed: 60-90 minutes
Special Needs: Massage/Bondage Table, chair and demo bottom
Handout to Photocopy: YES
Presented at: LAC 06/07

 

Relationship Balance: The Win/win of Relationships & Mutual Rewards

We all have things that motivate us to do better in life, as well as those things that de-motivate us. We are also driven to strive for rewards and the “fruits” of our labor. In this workshop, we will explore how to best identify what a “motivator” can be, as well as how best to “reward” or “punish” to empower Win/win D/s relationships.

Time Needed: 60-90 minutes
Special Needs: None—audience participation
Handout to Photocopy: YES
Presented at: LAC 07

 

To Be or Not to Be: The Question of Polyamory and Non-Monogamy

Confused when someone tells you that they were monogamous but you see them “scene” with others who are not their partner? Ever wonder what your partner was doing and with whom? Ever felt restricted about kink versus sex with others beyond your primary relationship? Learn about relationship negotiations and coming to mutually agreed-to terms for being monogamous, polyamorous or something in between (Non-Monogamous or Quasi-Monogamous). This workshop is your chance to explore and develop the skills to negotiate what works best for your relationship; how to establish clear and complete communications between partners; how to set up and manage boundaries to build trust; how to nourish external "play buddy" relationships; how to establish structure primary and secondary relationships; how to avoid jealousy and feelings of inadequacy; how to handle a type of sex or a specific type of toy being “reserved” for only one partner; and how to co-nurture wholistic health and well-being for those involved beyond monogamy.

Time Needed: 60-90 minutes
Special Needs: None—audience participation
Handout to Photocopy: YES
Presented at: LAC 07

 

Sensuality of Self: Seduction Dance for Wellness

When is hot really hot? Learn how to tap into your sensual self to move, look, speak, act, react and feel “sexy to da max” for yourself and the one/s you love all the while getting in shape. This workshop is great for those who are shy to those who are total exhibitionists!

Time Needed: 60-90 minutes
Special Needs: None—audience participation
Handout to Photocopy: YES
Presented at: LAC 06/07, BASH 06, Dominion

 

NLP in the Scene: Tools for Insightful Communications

In this workshop, we will explore the application of a key NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) technique that can help us discover, understand, and enhance our own and others' processes of decision-making, communication, motivation, and learning—simply, elegantly and effectively.

Time Needed: 90 minutes
Special Needs: None—audience participation
Handout to Photocopy: YES
Presented at: LAC 07

 

Common Sense Basics: The Lay of the Land of Kink

This workshop is for those who may be new or feels the need for a refresher course. Community Elders are welcome to join in and lend their expertise. We will discuss behavior options and common sense courtesies for a variety of different public settings, including those that may involve fashion/clothing, equipment, toys/implements and/or the people who are present or that you may meet. Learn some tips on basic play negotiations, scene safety and what to watch out for in your environment to keep yourself and others safe. Get comfortable exploring ideas on how to act and react, as well as what to expect and avoid so that fears are minimized and myths are dispelled.

Time Needed: 60-90 minutes
Special Needs: Two chairs, table and demo bottom
Handout to Photocopy: YES
Presented at: LAC 07, FF12, FetishCon 06

 

So you want to be a ProDomme, eh?

Think you’ve got what it takes to be a Professional Dominant (AKA Dominatrix)? Learn the peaks and pitfalls of the business, as well as some suggestions on ways that you can protect yourself while still having fun.

Time Needed: 60-90 minutes
Special Needs: None—no demo in this program
Handout to Photocopy: Yes
Presented at: FF12, LAC 07

 

To build or not to build – That is the question: Creating Successful Entities that Serve and Support

Discuss and explore the various structures for entities that can be set up to serve and support WIITWD effectively. This workshop will examine some of the reasons that could justify, as well as provide some details on how to successfully structure and launch a munch, special interest group, not-for-profit/non-profit organization and corporation, with or without a facility and whether or not event production is involved. Some pitfalls, as well as tried and true methods will be presented and discussed that should provide professional insights, as well as advantages to those who are looking to launch or grow an entity that serves and supports an alternative lifestyle community.

Time Needed: 90-120 minutes
Special Needs: None—no demo in this program
Handout to Photocopy: Yes
Presented at: LLC XIII


Scene Performances:  

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  • Partial Predicament/Manipulation Suspension

  • Black & Blue Rhythmic Impact Erotic Dance

  • Sadistic Seduction and Sensory Torment

  • Slave Dances at the Market Auction

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  • Partial Predicament/Manipulation Suspension

  • Black & Blue Rhythmic Impact Erotic Dance

  • Sadistic Seduction and Sensory Torment

  • Slave Dances at the Market Auction


Services Available (QUICK LINKS):  

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Classes, Workshops and Presentations

Mentoring/Training and Relationship Coaching

Scene Performances & Gallery

Professional Training and Domination

Personal Consideration of Prospective Submissives/Slaves


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If you are interested in any of the above services, please contact Domina DeManda via EMAIL or call +1.561.309.9879

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Domina DeManda is a Lifestyle Dominant, Relationship Coach, Intimacy Coach, Presenter, Educator, Performer, Dominatrix and Fetish Model who embraces Alternative Lifestyles, SM, Bondage, Dominance, submission, Polyamory, Fetishes, Kinks and Fantasy Role Playing, as well as provides Alternative Lifestyles Support & Services