It is so wonderful to see all the people whom I know and have enjoyed spending time with visiting me in Southeast Florida over the years... from casual acquaintances to long-time friends, from members of the various alternative lifestyle communities that I'm involved in and support to my beloved lifestyle extended family members, and from intimate members of LAC and/or HOS to my personal submissives and slave pets. I look forward to interacting with all them more in the future to further secure our ties, mutual interests and perpetuate even more wonderful experiences to share.

If I haven't actually met you and you claim to be a masochist, bottom, sub, slave or switch that is interested in me, personally, considering you as a Lifestyle Dominant and Sadist (and NOT professionally as a ProDomme) for training/mentoring and service MY WAY, please read my ENTIRE profile below BEFORE contacting me.

Thank you.

Aloha pumehana,

Domina DeManda

Keiki AKA Domina DeManda

The Kinky Tour Guide

 

Find DominaDeManda on FetLife!

http://fetlife.com/users/12739

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ABOUT DOMINA DEMANDA

I'm a Sadist who is Dominant (not domineering), Assertive (not aggressive), Nurturing (not smothering) and Open-Minded (not naive).

Some insights into Who I Am (which you should know BEFORE contacting me!):

I'm a happily married, polyamorous and devoted wife/wench/slave to my beloved Husband, Partner, Owner and Master, Daddy Jeff (AKA Shaman), who is a Dominant Sadist and the only individual I serve, submit to and am a masochist for. Daddy Jeff is my end-all, be-all and soul mate. He is the primary individual who totally and completely knows, accepts and supports me, as well as the fact that I'm a long-time Dominant Sadist and Goddess type (since 1984) to the select and rare submissive jewels of my choosing and continues to be encouraging of my having "My pets" with his blessing.

I'm the proud Mistress to and Owner of SickBoy, who is my beloved property, slave pet and secondary partner, as well as one of the Guardian Guides or Mentors to the wonderful submissives, bottoms, Dominants, Tops, Switches or Friends who are beloved family members in Daddy Jeff's lifestyle household, House of Shaman.

Suffice it to say that I'm a straight up, tell-it-like-it-is, ethical, honest, sinfully sensual, adventurously deviant, a playfully wicked woman and Kinky Tour Guide when it comes to someone whom I may have great chemistry with. I live openly and embrace living, enjoying the many facets of the alternative lifestyle fetishes, kinks and practices that are very near and dear to my heart.

There's no question that I'm passionate about how I live and love, as well as my work. As the sole Founder/Director of the Lifestyle Alternatives Centre of Palm Beach and Kinky Tour Guide, providing a venue and resource to others to access information, support, exposure, education, experience, entertainment and social networking opportunities that embrace alternative lifestyles, fetishes and kinks is a priority for me.

In addition to my not-for-profit alternative lifestyle educational and social organization and the activities hosted each month at my 4300+ square foot member-funded facility, I keep busy traveling to various lifestyle events whenever possible. You may find me presenting workshops on some of my favorite kinky topics or performing at some of the great events available to alternative lifestyle communities. I also do fetish modeling and photography, as well as business development consulting for the technology industry, wholistic readings/healings and life/relationship/spiritual coaching for couples, individuals and businesses.

In all that I do, I strive to do with caution and careful consideration of everything and all involved. I am very selective about the choices I may make and whom I may consider for mentoring, training or allowing to be in service to me.

If you are interested in my not-for-profit alternative lifestyles educational and social organization & Southeast Florida alternative lifestyle events and activities (as well as in the rest of the US), please contact me with questions. I’ll be happy to help you or point you to resources that will.

If you think that I should consider you as a prospect with potential to be trained "MY WAY" and to my standards/tastes in both submissive service and erotic masochism, then you must be an exceptional individual and confident that you are someone who truly enjoys BOTH aspects and forms of surrender.

If you feel that you are such a rare jewel and EXCEPTION who would be worth my time to consider, you must also be someone who resonates with who I am and how I live, as well as be an individual who has no issue putting forth time AND effort to impress me.

If you are such a wonderful, rare and exceptional individual, please feel free to EMAIL a DETAILED introduction and INCLUDE a recent picture, if there is none on your profile) that shows your face (and not your genitals!).

By DETAILED, I mean that you need to let me know what you’ve done and what you want to do (your experience and your objectives), in respect to alternative lifestyle interests). You should include any referrals or recommendations if you have them.

I will also want to know about your limitations (soft and hard limits) and skill set (whatever would be of value and benefit to your Dominant Mistress' life) for submissive service, as well as about any alternative lifestyle organizations or groups that you may belong to.

Finally, be sure to INCLUDE what it was specifically from this website or your knowledge about me that prompted you to contact me in your introduction EMAIL.

If your introduction is MISSING ANY DETAILS or a picture, I WILL NOT BE INCLINED TO REPLY and if I do, it will not be pleasant. Again, If you are such a rare and exceptional individual who thinks that I may enjoy having you as my own, please feel free to send an introduction (including the details described above).

I look forward to learning more about you.

A NOTE TO FULL CD/TV/TS Male to Females and Feminine Persona Males (excluding transgendered MtoF individuals):  

Although I love hanging out to social with "you girls", I honestly only enjoy feminization in fetish fashion/makeup from time to time and ONLY if I happen to own you... HOWEVER, that is the extent of my interests in boys being anything other than all male.

That stated, please be clear that I am not a Dominant Sadist who personally embraces fetishes that include forced feminization or sissification of my boys beyond the occasional feminization for fun with my slave pets or submissives trainees.

As for humiliation, I'm all for it in a variety of other ways that will keep my boys all male for my personal pleasure. I like my boys to be MANLY, although I like my girls both feminine and butch.

Silkie panties and intimate strap-on play I may make an exception for, but sorry...it just doesn't do it for me if boys serve me in a female persona in heels, hose and wearing pink.

It's just not my kink!

Again, this is NOT applicable to those who into the fetish fashion of feminization on occasion or are fully transgendered male to female.

I mean no offense to those of you who may enjoy feminization or live as a female CD/TV/TS, but I enjoy my boys to be manly males in mannerism, attire and physical stature.

You may be totally trained, delightful and well versed in the forms of feminized fetishes and lifestyle practices that you enjoy and I am very accepting and supportive of you for your choices, as well as a total advocate of your fetishes. In fact, I would certainly be happy to introduce you to others who may be far more suitable to enjoying your virtues than I would be.

For me, however, there's nothing like having a wonderful submissive male service pet who is devoted, giving and still ALL male without them experiencing any threat of losing their masculinity, as long as they are also a moderate to extreme erotic masochist so that I can reward them for their loyalty and attentions.

I thoroughly enjoy roughly gripping the pressure points my male pet/s, with a swift knee to their groin or gluts to bring them to their knees at my feet before grabbing their hair to throw and tie them tightly in erotic rope bondage, to then suspend them spread out and opened up before me so that I can be delighted by torturing them both sensually and sadistically with a variety of painful and pleasurable devices and methods until they scream out quivering in total surrender and begging for their release on a multitude of levels and I take them for my own satisfaction.

That's just who I am :)  

Aloha pumehana,

Domina DeManda

Keiki AKA Domina DeManda

The Kinky Tour Guide

Founder/Director

Lifestyle Alternatives Centre of Palm Beach

www.lacpb.org 

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“Shaman’s HulaKeiki”

www.houseofshaman.org 

“Mama’s Hula Girl” #372

www.mamasfamily.org 

 

Domina DeManda Bio is at:

www.kinkytourguide.com

Creator of Kinky Kamp

www.kinkykamp.com 

Producer of the Fetish School with LAC Fetish Factory's Anniversary Weekends

www.fetishfactory.com/anniversary/feted.htm

 

LAC is a Proud Platinum Plus Sponsor of:

Beyond Leather

www.beyondleather.net

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/beyondleather

 

LAC is a Proud Platinum Sponsor of:

Alternative Presenter

www.alternativepresenter.com

 

LAC Special Interest Groups:

Lifestyle Alternatives Centre of Palm Beach (LACPB) - This is a moderated group for members, visiting guests and those interested in membership in LAC or events at the LAC Facility. For more details about LAC (the not-for-profit organization and facility), please visit http://www.lacpb.org

D.O.T.S. - Dominants or Tops/Sadists Seeking/Sharing- This is a Special Interest Group for Dominants, Masters, Mistresses, Tops and Sadists at the Lifestyle Alternatives Centre of Palm Beach. If not an active LAC Member, please be someone who is attending or interested in attending live events at LAC.

S.A.M.S. - Submissives/Slaves and Masochists Sharing/Seeking - A Special Interest Group for submissives, slaves and masochists/bottoms at LAC. If not an active LAC Member, please be someone who is attending or interested in attending live events at LAC.

Switching Places - A Special Interest Group for Switches at LAC. If not an active LAC Member, please be someone who is attending or interested in attending live events at LAC.

Kinky Konnections - Are you a single Dominant, Top, Sadist, Switch, sub/slave, bottom, masochist or polyamorous household and looking to meet other singles or open polyamorous households where there may be relationship possibilities that end your single status? Join us!

LAC Fetish School at Fetish Factory - Ever get to the Fetish Factory Alter Ego or Xtreme Fetish Parties? Domina DeManda produces the Fetish School for Fetish Factory with talented LAC Members each year. Join us for updates and news.

Photo Artisans Guild (PAG) - Founded by Daddy Jeff, this group launched 09/23/06 to support the PAG Special Interest Group (SIG) at LAC. Interested in Erotic Fetish Art. You ARE required to be an active member in LAC to join this group.

Kinky Kamp by Kinky Tour Guide - Domina DeManda, the Kinky Tour Guide, will be producing a weekend of kinky adventures, education, fun and celebration held every 3-4 months in a variety of different locations. Find out details as they become available by joining this group :)

Creating Your World of Kink - This group is devoted to sharing how Dominance, submission, sadism, masochism, bondage, discipline, fetishes, kinks and the practices of alt lifestyles are defined, embraced and incorporated into your own world of kink and relationships.

 

LAC is Home to the following Outstanding Organizations:

Women of Leather Florida (WOLF)

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/wolfatcompass

Shibari South Florida (SILK)

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/shibarisouthflorida

 

LAC is Honored to be a Coalition Partner/Member in:

National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF)

www.ncsfreedom.org

Free Speech Coalition (FSC)

www.freespeechcoalition.com